The appellant, Manoj Dhankar, is the father of the minor son. Respondent No. 1 is the mother, and Respondents No. 2 and 3 are her parents. The appellant and Respondent No. 1 were married on 26 November 2012, and their son was born on 18 January 2016.
Matrimonial Dispute: A long-standing matrimonial and custody dispute exists between the parties.
The mother left the matrimonial home in 2017 and filed for divorce.
The father initiated proceedings for custody of the minor child in 2018.
An order on 19 March 2019 by the Family Court allowed the father to meet the child twice a month.
A settlement attempt involved filing for divorce by mutual consent and withdrawing earlier petitions, with an agreement regarding custody recorded on 28 August 2019; however, the compromise failed, and the mutual consent petition was withdrawn.
Custody Proceedings & Violations:
The father then instituted a petition under the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, seeking custody.
An interim order on 3 February 2022 granted the father custody every Saturday and Sunday, subject to the condition that the child would not be taken out of Rohtak, Haryana.
The Family Court dismissed the father’s petition on 27 March 2023, finding that the appellant (father) had violated the terms of the interim order.
During the pendency of an appeal concerning this matter, the respondent-mother took the child to Ireland.
The High Court dismissed the father’s appeal on 4 October 2024, relying on the father’s breach of the interim custody arrangement and noting that the child had been living with the mother since 18 August 2017.
Current Appeal: The present appeal arises from the High Court’s order, with the father limiting his request to securing visitation rights through video-conferencing. The child is currently living with his mother in Ireland and appears settled.
Law Involved
Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 (HMA):
Sections 13(1)(ia) and (ib) for divorce petitions.
Section 13-B for divorce by mutual consent.
Guardians and Wards Act, 1890: Section 25 for seeking custody.
Reasoning
Child’s Best Interest: The core issue is the future of a young child, and the central question is what arrangement best serves the child’s emotional, mental, and physical well-being.
Parental Conduct: The court observed that the conduct of both parents has not been ideal, and their personal differences have led to a long and bitter conflict. The court’s priority is to prevent the child from becoming a casualty and to ensure the child grows up in an atmosphere of security, love, and care.
Current Situation: The child is currently living with his mother in Ireland and appears to be settled there.
Father’s Limited Request: The father’s request in this appeal is specifically limited to video-conferencing rights.
Right to Both Parents’ Affection: The court found that video interaction is fair and necessary, as every child has a right to the affection of both parents. Even when parents live apart or in different countries, it is important for the child to maintain a relationship with both.
Preventing Deprivation: Denying such contact would deprive the child of the love, guidance, and emotional support of the father.
Balancing Act: The court views the father’s request for video interaction as reasonable and necessary to balance the child’s current living situation with the need to ensure the father remains a part of the child’s life.
Holding
The appeal is allowed to the extent of granting video-conferencing rights.
The appellant (father) is entitled to interact with his son through video-conferencing for two hours every alternate Sunday from 10:00 AM to 12:00 noon (Ireland time).
Both parties are directed to cooperate to ensure the arrangement is carried out smoothly, without obstruction or hostility.
Any technical or logistical difficulties in arranging the video sessions are to be resolved mutually, with the interest of the child being paramount.
Manoj Dhankar Vs Neeharika & Ors.
Supreme Court: 2025 INSC 1068: (DoJ 02-09-2025)




